To be cool, don’t just think about it, do it. It is scary but it is very stimulating. Remember that people are not needy or desperate. Instead, try to solve the problems yourself whenever you can. This quality attracts people.
Having time alone is great too. If someone hasn’t called you back, leave it. No need to follow up with annoying text messages. Give people their space and they will respect you much more. Be yourself. It will be something other people will admire. You are unique and you do not need to join a click. Make your own friends.
Live life for who you are. Don’t lose sight of yourself or your morals. Own your personality. Remember that we are all human and we try to accept each other despite all the flaws and qualities we have, why not accept yourself as the most important person to you in the world?
What essentially makes you cool is your identity. Try to find your talent: sports, music, art, whatever. People will notice your passion and respect you for it. Practice self-disclosure. The more you reveal yourself, the better you will understand yourself. Self-disclosure happens slowly.
Be friendly, but not overly anxious. Many people find someone who is too eager to be upset. Try not to impose yourself on people. Be a good conversationalist. Don’t dominate the conversation. It is not necessary to share a similar story in each scenario. Just listen and briefly comment on the other person’s story.
Be a good listener. False enthusiasm will just seem cruel. If you’re stuck, remember the golden rule. Most people want to talk about themselves. Please wait for the right moment to comment.
Be playful! Joke with other people. Chorus for using too many colloquialisms. This can make you appear “fake” or unable to understand your respected language. Speak normally, clearly and confidently. Use humor. Great people know how to use humor to ease any situation.
Learn to laugh at yourself. You can be cool and you can be too cool. Don’t be that person. Talk loud. Look at people who are “cool”; They tend to speak confidently and clearly, at a good pace. They do not converse quickly. They say what they mean and they mean what they say. If you express your opinion and people disagree, don’t worry. However, make it count. Don’t yell your opinion just to be heard.
Keep your humor. “Learn to deal with people. Don’t get angry or frustrated. Being cool comes naturally. It’s easy to do. Be confident. People like people who don’t try, but still succeed. ¿ How it works Take a deep breath Don’t lose your cool Stay calm Don’t use bad behavior to get attention You should never substitute negative attention for being really cool.
Avoid arguing. When you’re okay, you realize that winning an argument doesn’t make sense. When you know that you are right, you just know it. Remember that people are your equals. Even a group of people is just like you. Remember that people are your equals. Even a group of people is just like you. They should be treated the way you should be treated. But always know it’s for a reason, be willing to find out what the reason is as long as you want to be respected. Understand that some people will not understand.
Have faith in your friends. There is a reason why they hang out with you. Life doesn’t work that way. Do not be afraid to be different. Insecure people will sometimes get jealous of you. Be aware of yourself. In terms of composure; Be smiling, stand / sit up straight (makes you look and feel more confident), smile generously, be courteous and considerate, etc.
Present yourself in a positive way. Walk with good posture and look people in the eye. Smile. Get in shape! Eat healthy too. You will see results if you work hard. Know that you can never please everyone. People have millions of ways to get under the skin. Learn to detect them and become immune. Be happy with yourself and do what you enjoy.
Project confident body language. Find your own style. You don’t have to follow trends to be cool; you just have to be able to look comfortable and happy with what you’re wearing.