In fact, marriages are made in heaven. But is it applicable to all girls? Well, in my opinion, that’s a big NO. By the time she crosses the age of 18, her parents begin to think that she might never marry her if she continues to pursue her career. Then her parents or her boyfriend push her into a married life, where the scenario takes a massive turn. The first adventure is presented as a circus show where everyone comes to see the ‘new daughter-in-law’. She must be beautiful and smart to win first place. Her face should resemble Goddess Lakshmi and she should be a scholar. When all the neighbors and family members appreciate her in every way, she gains the position of an ideal daughter-in-law. Well, all the appreciation and praise was given without even knowing her name. Then her perfect figure and her hair come on the scene. Oh Lord! She adds great value to her reputation.
A competent worker
Let’s check your working capacity. Wait a minute; Are you working in an office or at home? Poor me! The girl, who is extremely educated and has held a managerial position in her office, is expected to know all the housework. How will she know? She was busy studying and building her career. She barely had time to relax. Her mother cooked and washed clothes. But her in-laws, who are also parents to a girl, expect this of her supposed daughter.
Sacrifice is only expected from wives
The girl sacrifices her name, room, the comfort of her mother’s arms, the security of her father’s presence, work, hobbies, privacy, and even her identity, just to be a cook and a maid. But the irony is that when the same people go from being in-laws to being parents to their beloved daughter, they become overprotective. They expect her son-in-law to stay at her house where her daughter-in-law will make all the royal arrangements and they will collect the thanks. But they never want her son to stay at her mother-in-law’s house. Is this a girl, who had a bright future, does she deserve her? She could have been the boss of people equivalent to her husband. But, she sacrifices it out of love and respect.
What is our future?
This is the scenario of each house. I don’t know where we’re headed. Being the mother of a girl, I really worry about her future. After all, our society does not accept a single girl. So the bottom line is to raise her like a guinea pig and hand her over to people who don’t care about her or her opinions at all. Where will we be in twenty years? It depends on us, the young people. If we raise our children to respect women and their feelings, the scenario may change. Girls should also be taught to respect others and be self-sufficient.
Conclusion
If the children are allowed to sleep as long as they want, your wife should be able to sleep in as well. If a wife can cook after work, husbands can too. In this way, our country will be able to find happy and healthier families. Chieftaincy and slavery will be wiped out from the face of society and nuclear families will unite to become one. An equal right gets the same position and we can definitely look forward to seeing a brighter future.