I have been thinking for the past week, what to write an article about. I was thinking, well, everything about how to do it is clearly listed on the blog, what else can I tell people? But then I remembered a problem I had a few months ago and how I got over it.
Lots of guys who get into PUA have the experience, as a client I was with this week did, where they’re making progress with a girl, and they run into last-minute resistance when it comes to the bedroom, or having a good night. with a girl and get her phone number and the girl doesn’t respond to her texts, or that it was ‘just one night’ or that ‘the moment has passed’
Why has the moment passed? The key to building a strong relationship takes three things I) Touching, ii) Sharing and iii) common activities. A lot of the kids who are learning PUA become great conversation starters, or they are the most interesting person in the room because they are well dressed or they smile at people and people come up and want to talk, the PUA then proceeds to deliver interesting stories. about themselves gets the phone number or a close kiss, but then the connection seems to end.
What is recommended is that you build the interaction from the beginning to include cinematics, this means that you are constantly increasing the level of contact without directly conveying that you like the girl (as this will reduce your attractiveness).
Women define the attractiveness of a potential mate on several things, but most of it boils down to how the guy is perceived socially by other people in the larger tribe, if you lower your value by stating that you like him then she will automatically be attractive to you, it is best if you seem ‘too good for her’ but sometimes share common interests, and after several minutes of her being interested in your interesting life, turn your attention to the metaphorical information that you both can share about their lives, i.e. silly secrets, silly games, as they have a broader contextual meaning than what is obvious on the surface.
After you get the number or the kiss, keep in touch and share and you’ll be sure to keep the girl interested. Remember, only show interest in a girl while doing something that indicates you might be joking.