It goes without saying that romance adds spice to our lives. As time passes in a marriage, couples often care less about being as romantic as they were before in their married life. The following are some things that can add some spice to your married life:
one) Say I love you”: Do you remember when you used to say “I love you” to your fiancé in your pre-marital romantic conversations? But what happened to him after the marriage? Do you still say those three magic words to your spouse? If not, he starts saying it right away for no reason. You will definitely see the instant effect of these beautiful words.
2) start your day with a kiss: Start your day with a kiss to your partner, either on the forehead or on the cheeks. When he answers you with a kiss or says “I love you”, you will feel divine. All love making activities release a special hormone called ‘Oxytocin’ in our body which is responsible for making us feel delighted all day long. A simple kiss is enough to achieve this effect.
3) write a romantic love letter: Most couples start getting bored in their married life because they think that they should become mature and responsible after marriage and that activities like writing love letters and exchanging gifts sound good only when you are not married. However, there is no age to express your love to your partner. You can express your love by writing a beautiful note or love letter to let your spouse appreciate your qualities that still impress him or to let him know how much he still means to you.
4) Plan a romantic outing: In a busy and hectic routine, it often becomes difficult to spend quality time with others. If this is the case, the two of you can plan a romantic outing on a weekend. How about a classic romantic movie or a candlelit dinner? When you go out for a walk, try to remember the days when you first fell in love, express your love, be romantic and enjoy the evening to the fullest.
5) remember the old days: A very good idea is to lie down together in the backyard or on the beach on a moonlit night, holding hands, and reminisce about the old loving days when you were just married and used to love each other very much.
6) keep in contact: There is no denying the fact that everyone stays busy with their professional work in the office. But it’s a beautiful idea to spend just five minutes calling your spouse at least once or twice a day to say something romantic like “I love you” or “I miss you” and make them feel special.
7) give surprise gifts: Imagine how you would feel when you come home after working hard at the office and your spouse surprises you with a gift? The big smile on your face will not only make you forget the tiredness of the day, but also bring a new life to your relationship.
8) appreciate your partner: Try to appreciate your partner often. For example, if you liked the dinner she prepared, let her know that you liked her and that you appreciate the way she cares for you.
Therefore, there are several ways to enhance the romance in your married life. All that is required is an expression of your love for each other.